I really appreciate all the respectful discussion on how toys can be used in a loving way that doesn't violate conscience. Whether dildos or just about any other toy, the user's motivation and attitude are perhaps the biggest determining factor if the toy is a blessing or a detriment.

Offering high quality toys is really important to me.
Both for cost and quality.
Actual cost I have a family budget like everyone else and I noticed a situation where I could buy a cheap $25 toy and have it break every 6 weeks and replace it. By the time I replaced it a few times, I could have bought the $100 toy that so far has lasted over a year. It actually saves money to buy quality.

The quality reason is important to me because I believe that buying and using and experiencing a high quality toy gives such a richer experience and it's emotionally very honoring to both the man and the woman to be intentional about seeking to better their sex life. Sort of the principle of "where your treasure is there will your heart be also". While I know budgets can be tight, mine certainly is, there is a real blessing and it's so honoring to say "we hold our sex life as a priority and we're going to be intentional about putting resource to it".

Life is busy. Marriage is busy. Every one and every thing is clamoring for your time and your money. There's something very healing I think about honoring sex as a priority. Whether that's buying a bouquet of flowers, candles, massage oil, toys, pretty lingerie, bedroom gear, bed linens that are a pleasure to touch, or a budget to priceline a hotel, there is something very honoring to set aside whatever you can afford to invest in your sexuality.
Does that make sense?

Love,
Shula